We are all trying to “puzzle” our way through life. As you piece together your identity, consider the people, communities, and values that impact you.
Bob May had always been different. Small, weak, and slight, he was regularly ridiculed, bullied, and made fun of. He spent his whole childhood like that.
Eventually he graduated from Dartmouth College in 1926 and married the love of his life, Evelyn. Together they had a beautiful daughter named Barbara.
Bob became a copywriter for Chicago-based Montgomery Ward. It was the Great Depression, and they led a modest, but meaningful life. Then everything changed.
Evelyn got cancer. She passed away just days before Christmas in 1938. Bob was 34; Barbara was only 4.
Pressed with grief and buried in medical bills, the father and daughter struggled with each passing day.
At work, Montgomery Ward had been purchasing and giving away coloring books each year for Christmas, and this year they decided to make their own to save money. They approached Bob May and asked him to write a story.
Bob thought of his own life—he had always felt different, like he couldn’t get ahead. He associated with the story of the ugly duckling. Drawing on these powerful emotions, but fueled by the belief in the hidden value within each of us, he wrote the story of a cast away, misfit reindeer.
Originally named Rollo, then Reginald, Bob finally settled on Rudolph. He tested it on his 4-year-old daughter, who loved it.
He submitted the story to his boss, who was worried about the red nose, fearing the association with drinking and drunkenness. But Bob believed in his vision, and took his friend Denver Gillen, who worked in Montgomery Ward’s art department, to the Lincoln Park Zoo to create a sketch of Rudolph based on a real reindeer.
The illustrations gave life to the story, and it was quickly approved for distribution.
Montgomery Ward distributed 2.4 million copies of their Rudolph booklet in 1939. In spite of wartime paper shortages, which curtailed printing over the next few years, they still printed 6 million copies by the end of 1946.
Post-war demand for licensing the Rudolph character was enormous, but while May was the creator, he held no copyright and received no royalties.
Finally, a major publisher approached Montgomery Ward wanting to purchase rights to print an updated version of the story. Knowing that May was deeply in debt from Evelyn’s medical bills, Montgomery Ward’s corporate president, Sewell Avery, turned the copyright over to May in January 1947 in an unprecedented gesture of generosity.
That year it was printed commercially, featured in theaters as a 9-minute cartoon, and gained huge popularity. May’s brother-in-law, songwriter Johnny Marks, wrote the lyrics and melody for a song based on the Character, titled “Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer.”
The song was originally turned down by Bing Crosby and Dinah Shore, but was finally recorded by Gene Autry and became a phenomenal success. It sold more records than any other Christmas song, with the exception of “White Christmas.”
Bob’s belief in the hidden value within us all became a reality that changed his life and impacted millions upon millions of people. His vision and belief had become a reality.
May you recognize the light within yourself, no matter how deeply hidden, and find a way to make it real.
Merry Christmas!
-Rusty
We are all trying to “puzzle” our way through life. As you piece together your identity, consider the people, communities, and values that impact you.
You’ve likely heard the children’s story about the ugly duckling. What difference does a change in perspective make? Read on to find out how you can relate to his experience.
You are capable of greatness. In fact, it is already within you. You just need to discover it, and then work to bring your life into alignment so that your life's mission and your life become one and the same. That's when you'll shine. That's when you'll experience full joy and fulfillment, when you're actions align to your purpose. We can help.
The night I quit my job I had a decision to make: wait, or just start. I chose to just start and held a seminar the next day. People in motion tend to stay in motion and people at rest tend to stay at rest. So whatever it is you've been waiting to do... just start!
The hardest handicaps to overcome are mental. It happens when we tell ourselves the wrong story. Change the story.
The funny, but insightful story about how we tend to destroy what is most precious to us. A video from an international speech competition.
Life Engineering is dedicated to helping individuals, parents, leaders, and organizations achieve excellence.
We provide the tools and the training, the motivation and the methodology, an entire system designed to help you move beyond where you’ve been, to go farther than you thought you could… to achieve more, to do more, to become more. It’s about more than just short-term success. It’s the disciplined pursuit of excellence.
6 Responses
Rusty,
Have been so disappointed that you haven’t posted anything since Dec. 23rd. Am looking forward to your next post. What does a Yield sign mean to you in your life?
Where can I find what you say ah I want you tell me .
I love your site. There is plenty of insight.
This is very interesting. I actually enjoy your writing style
and your word choice more than anything Smile
^_^Love the crinkly smiling faces! Great way to shoot the location! thank you.love you too.
Great story — but not true. May did write Rudolph and his wife did, tragically, pass away from cancer. But the events were entirely unrelated. May was a writer for Montgomery Wards who drew the assignment to write a new children’s story for a marketing giveaway at Christmas — as was Ward’s practice for many years.
May wrote the story based upon The Ugly Duckling. And in May’s original story Rudolph was not maligned. In fact, he grew up well adjusted in a normal home of loving parents. He was “discovered” by Santa who was delivering presents to Rudolph’s house “one foggy Christmas eve”. And that story was printed more than 6 million times until 1946, when Wards gave May the rights to do other things with the story.
He did. He produced a commercial copy of the Rudolph story in 1947 as well as a 9-minute cartoon. His brother in law, Johnny Marks, wrote the now-famous song on the subsequent versions of Rudolph’s story, including the iconic 1964 television special, were based.
Rudolph’s story has morphed almost as much as May’s story has. While it is true Evelyn did die of cancer and they did have a four year old daughter, Barbara, at the time. The connection with the Rudolph story to the family situation was a sad fabrication created by…another copywriter working for Wards in 2000, just before they went out of business (for the last time). In a desperate attempt to cash in one last time on Rudolph the whole story of Evelyn’s tragic passing was woven into the history of Rudolph.
How do we know? May was interviewed in 1975, a year before his own passing, who told the story without all the family heartbreak inserted. In fact, he said he got the assignment, wrote the story and THEN tested it out on Barbara after Evelyn had died — and he did it only to see if a child would respond to it favorably. (She did).
The story as you’ve written it here is inspiring. It just isn’t true.